rainbows & butterflies

i am a fan of every lovestory i come across with. i never feel envy with those people in love: sweet, silly-looking  and all-too mushy. they in fact make my heart melt. such a good sight to see - couples holding hands and simply looking at each other.
but then - reality check!
love isnt just about rainbows and butterflies..It’s the rare couple (even not what u call normal) who doesn’t, sooner or later, run into a few bumps in the road. If you recognize ahead of time what those relationship problems can be, you’ll have a much better chance of weathering the storm. but, there wud be lots of issues - from basic to complicated ones, that even when you do discuss things beforehand,it is stil sometimes nothing like you think it’s going to be.
(my viewpoint): Problems can creep in when we start to have thoughts like “do I love him more than he loves me?” We start examining all the things we do for him. All the ways we express our love and how much time and effort we’re putting into the relationship. Then we try to figure out if he is giving an equal amount back. If we perceive a discrepancy in that balance sheet its when insecurities start ruling over us . hu loves being played for a fool anyway?
so here’s a thing –act on your intuition with the “Long-Term” In mind. women have tough instincts as experts say=) while men can be the worst communicators when it comes to their feelings, emotions and intentions around love and relationships.
just undrstand each other’s prsonal values,learn to listen & try to avoid argumnts (just try, but dnt feel bad if u cnt help it sometimes- its prfctly nrmal), give&take, share ur feelings, develop trust. have much good times as you can- for it is those “goodies” that wud help you hold and cling on during shaky and rocky times..
“Love is like an earthquake-unpredictable, a little scary, but when the hard part is over you realize how lucky you truly are.”
it is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with him more than any other person. it  is trusting that someone  enough to tell him everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of.
“Love is saying ‘I feel differently’ instead of ‘You’re wrong.’”
fights.fights.fights. yes sometimes helplessly it makes you think of quitting- and saying goodbye is simply the thing you think is easier. but there’s no easy way out- when ur already there- wrapped up with that silly but oh-you-just-luv-it intensified feeling called LOVE.
but u shud even feel lucky instead- to have known someone
who is so hard to say goodbye to.
better yet, love him when he least deserve it, because you never know, that is when he really needs it.
its ok to be stupid - he can be at some point too anyway- and it wud be  much of a  fun being stupid together =P
as quoted from a muvi: If your not willing to sound stupid,
you’re not worthy of falling in love.
-”A Lot Like Love”.
It is the things in common that make relationships enjoyable, but it is the little differences that make them interesting. No ones perfect. It’s when you see past the imperfections that you call it love.
“Every man is afraid of something. That’s how you know he’s in love with you; when he is afraid of losing you.” and thats a sign! never ever let go- he is
the kind of person hu is stil worth sticking with, that even when the sun turns grey, you cud stil console urslf that the sun stil shines anyway? even if it shines out his ass=p
that same prson hu luvs u for exctly hu u r. good mood. bad mood.ugly. pretty.
and the main reason why you love him is  because…- he is him!=)
[i am more than lucky&proud to have you 'occhio] =)